You dream of a happy, fulfilled relationship with the love of your life and a common future… BUT you currently feel helpless and afraid, because every time there is a chance of having such a relationship you run away or make this person run away …

You run your own business that is your passion, your service to the world, and your huge investment… BUT you already feel overload, even helpless, because you keep repeating the same strategies that work less and less and absorb more of your energy and private time …

If so, you are on the right page!

 

Sabotaging costs us tons of energy, money and good self-esteem.

Ultimately, sabotaging is punishing yourself for not being good enough.

Very painful. And very human.

 

Examples of self-sabotage:

Overeating

Attracting problematic clients, bosses …

Choosing partners that are not available

Not finishing schools, projects, important tasks

Procrastination

Work below your abilities

Spending more than earning

Missing opportunities and chances

Failure to meet deadlines

 

We usually sabotage what we care about the most, what we want the most.

Why?

Because our inner Saboteur doesn’t want any changes. It doesn’t want us to be powerful, independent, and free. The Saboteur wants everything to be „as it used to be”. Because whatever we want to do is “so dangerous, tiring, difficult and will not succeed anyway…”

The Saboteur has his helpers: inner Critic, Anxiety, Resignation, Doubts, physical symptoms, and Comparison. The Saboteur is strong, smart, consistent, and operates „from behind the scene”.

During the coaching process, we will disempower the Saboteur and will empower you. Ultimately you are the boss of your life and the Saboteur – even the smartest one – doesn’t exist without you 🙂

 

The coaching process takes six months and focuses on recognizing limiting thoughts and behaviors -patterns (or archetypes) and replacing them with more supportive and mature ones. The goal is to free yourself from a vicious circle and start to feel, think, and act differently than in the past.

If you don’t change your inner patterns – regardless of your life situation – you will have to repeat the same negative behaviors that cause you suffering and which you don’t want.

 

The program includes the following modules:

And now questions for you:

What becomes possible in your life when you will stop sabotaging yourself?

How would you feel knowing that you don’t have to repeat the vicious cycle of hope

and frustration?

 

When we got stuck the most important is being in motion.

With each step you gain speed, motivation and clarity of your direction.